“We can’t believe we found her, all this time our sister was only 3 miles away and never knew she existed”
Hear about the work of Lifelong Links from co-ordinator Paulette Tajeh-Bell
A young sister and brother asked their foster carer to find their dad. I got to work as their Lifelong Links private detective.
I was led by the young people they are my new boss. Ready to get to know them, support their journey and discover lasting relationships, which they can depend on in the future. Along with the foster carer and social worker the young people were supported every step of the way. It was an emotional journey for everyone involved.
Although Dad was found, he was not ready to form a relationship at that time. This was really challenging for the young people to take on board. I increased my visits to ensure they had the support they needed at this difficult time.
Dad mentioned a sibling that no one knew anything about. Going at the young people’s pace. Liaising with their social worker and foster carer, we talked through a safe plan to ensure the young people were prepared.
I found their sister who was overjoyed. She could not wait to meet them.
They were over the moon that we had found their new big sister who wanted to be a part of their lives.
It started with an exchange of letters and pictures ….
then building a relationship
“OMG she is just like me! I found my sister! It was the best Christmas”
We asked Paulette why she chose to help develop our Islington Lifelong Links Service?
This is such a unique service for care experienced and care leavers to link with family, friends and more that provides a positive and lasting support network in a safe way.
It’s been developed with the support of our Islington care experienced young people and led by the young person referred. Just to play a small part in bringing a network together that sees the young person through to adulthood and beyond is truly a privilege.
What do you enjoy about working with the family network?
I love building relationships with young people and their families/carers and seeing the growth in the young person during the work together. To see the immense joy when a young person finds a new connection or reconnects with a long-lost family member cannot be put into words, its compassion at its best!
Our Islington Lifelong Links service is open to referrals.
If you are supporting a care experienced or looked after young person, please offer our service and we can help you complete a short referral form.
For more information contact Lifelonglinks@islington.gov.uk
Read more on Find Your Islington | Islington Lifelong Links and/or watch a video of young person’ sharing their experience, here.